This Girl's Diary: Friends: Now and then

September 20, 2012

Friends: Now and then

Friendship.

The older we grow, the more complicated the dynamics of this relationship become.

People you once thought were your close buddies, turn out not so close after all. We tend to blame it on many factors. Time, distance, misunderstandings, no mutual grounds, new company, relationships etc. I have had my share of such ups and downs and the people who now feature in my circle of trust are anything but a given.

How have you managed to fare with your relationships? Just reflecting on mine today. It has been a hell of a ride but a good one at that. Cheers.

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A note for the readers

Dear Stranger,

We've shared a one sided relationship over the past few years. It began for us in 2003 when I started my first blog. A few years later I decided against it due to two chief reasons- I wasn't a regular and my writing credentials were best portrayed in my diaries. Somehow the idea of seeing my neat handwritten journals gave me a far greater sense of satisfaction than Microsoft word ever could. It seemed (and still does) to me a feat I achieved minus automatic spell checks and grammatical corrections; a very important one at that and one which I carry till date.

Back in the blog industry for a second time, this was supposed to be my secret haven. A much needed outlet to pour my deepest thoughts. Regrets I may have, anger I may want to unleash, opinions I may want to make and hidden feelings I might want to express. Things haven't exactly worked out according to plan. Strange as it may sound, I feel a constant fear of being judged according to my writings. As a result, these posts represent only a decent chunk of what I may have liked to say otherwise. I constantly keep you in mind. You may or may not know me but it does not stop me from getting paranoid nonetheless. So if you are here today hoping to know my deepest secrets, don't bother to read further. Technology can only get you this far.