As human beings, we all crave for
companionship. I think it is human nature to want someone, just about anyone to
talk to or simply be physically present even if the atmosphere remains verbally
challenged. There will be times we want to be alone for a brief second, a
moment, a day or a long gap but, sooner or later, we want to get back to our
normal routines. Why are we so scared of being alone? I wonder.
Being alone does not, by any
means, signify weakness. On the contrary, I would take it as a sign of one’s strength.
We are all lonely beings at the end of the day. No matter how many times we try to share our
feelings, emotions or lives with the people around us, there will always be
that one aspect that will remain untouched. You will always wonder if someone
will ever be able to see life through your eyes. But the fact of the matter is
you are actually restored when alone. This isn’t just a Monroe presence in my
post, but the lines have some truth in them. Alone, in plain simple words,
means the capacity in you to stand your ground without a helping hand. It
signifies power, independence, faith and joy; a signal that the journey must go
on and it will.
I bask in this solace ever so
often; it is actually turning out to be a way of life for me.
I question the "joy" part of being lonely...
ReplyDeleteJoy because you are free of attachments that may otherwise bind you down.
ReplyDeleteJoy because loving yourself comes more easily than loving others-- you know you'll never disappoint yourself.
Joy because it makes you realize that you do NOT need anyone to help you find your way.
Joy because you are in control of the situation; of any situation.
Joy because no questions shall be thrown your way, no need to justify.
A nice perspective of seing "joy"..but think over a little more ...digging it inn..do u feel joy being free of attchments? do you alwaz like to make your own way alone everytime in situations of life? are u actually in control of situations? dont you have to justify knowing very well one dont like justifying???????
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