THE IMPONDERABILIA OF EVERYDAY EXISTENCE

May 4, 2013

Rabden's big day

Weddings in Sikkim have been a regular feature in my itinerary in the last few years. Still, I suppose, I can count the ones where I have genuinely had a good time. Of these, the one I attended yesterday is the latest entry. My school friend and a very close buddy right through my college days was getting married. I was stuck with some college work till as late as 4pm after which I rushed home to get ready and make it in time for the wedding. I reached the venue at 6 pm, accompanied by my father, brother and niece.

Due to the ongoing tourist season, hotels are reluctant to lease out their halls for any function except seminars, precisely why my friend had to book a three star hotel with a reception hall in the basement. The hall was rather stuffy and in need of, either, numerous fans or multiple air conditioners. We sat in the corner table. I felt a little bad that my father had to be seated with us while his juniors and seniors sat nearby. He seemed comfortable in our company but I was not happy with the arrangement. Finally my uneasiness was cured when dad got engaged in a deep conversation with a Minister of the State in another part of the hall. My father has always been a talker or a lecturer as we like to call him. With his current posting as the Chairman of a Hydel Project, he is more than happy to share the details of this so-called lucrative project with anyone who cares to listen. The hard working man and meticulous for detail that he is, he has come to learn a lot about running a company within a short span of time.

While I was enjoying my snacks over a glass of Sprite, I whatsapped my sister to ask her if she intended to attend the wedding at all? She, ofcourse, must have gotten irritated with my well intentioned message and did not bother to reply. But she did walk in after about an hour of us getting there. My seven year old niece was also present. We did not get to spend much time talking since she had a lot of catching up to do with her friend, who was also the groom’s elder sister. Feeling the heat in the hall, I decided to go upstairs with my niece. We sat in the lobby for sometime before we realized that our friends were seated in the floor above. It was here that I got to converse with a few lost pals. There was a wee bit diversion towards politics but the topic steered back to life, career and employment soon enough. After dinner (it was almost 10pm by then) we headed back to the top floor. The camera man was ready with his tool so all we had to do was pose. Of the many pictures we took, I particularly loved this one posted below for the sheer fact that it is something we will cherish for life. The idea behind the photograph came to us in-the-moment. Look at the joy reflecting in every smile!


After the session, we danced for the next two hours before I finally decided to call it a night.
Another happy memory added to my list of favourite weddings. Cheers.

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